Ladies’ Lament
by Kegler

27 answers become new words before entry, as indicated by the seven-word phrase 19A 30A. 24A and 32D are variant spellings.

Ladies’ Lament grid

Across
1In one's dotage, Italy backs direct links between systems (2 wds)
6Terribly evil toad broke the law
10Arcane, bizarre coteries
12Spelunker carrying Spot's body
13Country singer McEntire's gray apartment's entrance
14Related to liberal Democrat
15Outfit's price at first upset me
16Track actor Liotta having trouble, starting to worry
18Slightly adjust time for financial estimates
19See instructions
22One died, too
23Period I'm ultimately liable to be locked up (2 wds)
24Put in office with Stalin, unfortunately
26Niece agitated after babysitter's first admonition to act politely (2 wds)
28Displaying arms, else vessel destroyed
30See instructions
32Reddish clay dish described
33Unexcited maestro primarily follows large stringed instrument conflict
35Lyra's brightest star gave out
36Prepare a room
38Ring one-time robber
41Get excited, for the most part, about horseshoe of gold
42Herb, sitting in, proposes a meeting
43Quiet! Listen, Dotty...
44Territories mostly process French wine internally
45Covered and cared about animal companion
Down
1Wintergreen beer? Try a shot
2Idol began cavorting; nothing to worry about (3 wds)
3Mark hired Red
4Most favorable, taking road having the most lanes, perhaps
5Lie about new friend directly
7Founding father Ben left out strange scene in “A Wise Man's Gift”
8Large measures of electricity and lights
9Recalling one time zone
11“Once and Again” star initially lit out away from shore
12Soft bed plaything containing last of lotion
17Poachers essentially involved in attempt to capture waterfowl and groundhog
18Having an effect, catching thief
19Certain newsmen crash on broadcast
20Choice word in gentle reference to an English nobleman
21Regards with wonder crazy males commandeering RV
22Mongrel with tail cut short
25Went back around 5 on Saturday for certain show (2 wds)
27Eventually solve picture puzzle with Greek god
29More nervous from wild ride, e.g
31With the lights off, made certain repairs around outskirts of Knoxville
32Sane job, playing musical instruments
33Distort “White Rap” badly
34Prayer books and weapons discussed
37Female guard running behind out-of-control tram
39Starts to notice one really negative conjunction
40From one's parents, get nice complex

Solution