Don’t Hit Me
by Kegler

Each column contains a square where the Across and Down entries conflict; the conflicting letters, read from left to right, form two words that are synonyms
of each other.  In three other places in the grid, squares contain words that conflict; taken together, the two words in those squares represent the synonyms.

Don’t Hit Me grid

Across
1Certain servers stop, interrupting trades
8Brings home fishermen’s equipment
9Spanish adult resort
10Notably, Omar Khayyam met Ken, Art, Dotty
12Monthly payment is torn
14Erica’s stirring words of sympathy (2 wds)
16You mentioned sheep
18View bishopric
19Beg in Low Church
21Relative cooked tuna
22Cut short sharp criticism, per Rev. Spooner’s plan (2 wds)
24Originally called some telephone extension
25Watches for favorable votes, we hear
26Shattering broadcast put things right
Down
1Yeomen react badly to Japanese rite (2 wds)
2Impala, perhaps, runs after Chip
3Run into limitless drama
4Plastic pet ate carelessly partly thrown up
5Former English Conservative’s suit
6Son cut top of chestnut tree for extra money (2 wds)
7Caramel kept melting in bazaar
11Actress Campbell-Martin hits a drunk
13One unusual role in “The Matrix”
15Academic institution in Honshu ignoring the odds
17Mecca traveler fooled Jim, for the most part
20Ron comes up with one dark film
23Actress Ryan’s jewelry returned

Solution