Don’t Hit Me solution
by Kegler

The conflicting letters spell BLACKJACK and TWENTY-ONE; the three word conflicts have TEN from the Across word and ACE from the Down.

Don’t Hit Me solution grid

Across
1BART(END)ERS
8NETS (2 defs)
9SP + A
10TENTMAKER (MET KEN ART anag)
12RENT (2 defs)
14I CARE (ERICA anag)
16EWE ("YOU" hom)
18SEE (2 defs)
19MOO + CH
21AUNT (TUNA anag)
22ROAD MAP ("MOWED RAP" spoonerism)
24NEE (hidden)
25EYES ("AYES" hom)
26STRAIGHTEN (SHATTERING anag)
Down
1TEA CEREMONY (YEOMEN REACT anag)
2ANTE + LOPES
3dRAMa
4ACETATE (rev hidden)
5EX + E + C
6S + PARE + C + ASH
7MARKETPLACE (CARAMEL KEPT anag)
11TISHA (HITS A anag)
13NEO (ONE anag)
15OSU (even letters)
17HAD + JIm
20NO(I)R (RON rev)
23MEG (rev)