Figure It Out
by Kegler

Ten answers are too long too fit into the grid.  Removing the proper letters will leave a new word to enter; the removed letters, in clue order, will form a somewhat self-descriptive instruction.

Figure It Out grid

Across
1Food is cold? For what reason?
4General acceptance of post office correspondence sent around mid-July
10Row involving husband and a famous southern belle
12Cover includes one dance
13Turning, Mr. Rogers catches retreating lab animal
14Jazzman Chick's got Nikon's ultimate lens cap?
15Small-scale clothing real attractive
17Adult enters places with accomodations for the audience
18Disheartening sexually explicit works, with music by Beethoven
21Lists birds having only one egg
23Surprisingly near a stadium
25Escort to the door a group of clients? How outre! (2 wds)
27One setting one's cap, perhaps, for couple of minxes bathing in quantity of liquid
31Again study rings circling head of vulture (2 wds)
33Start to take Turkish official around edge of Iceland's subarctic forest
35Troublemaker participates in envelope stuffing
37Lack of vitality of one enemy's leader, last seen on the battlefield
38Cross instructor at first trains dogs
39Per Rev. Spooner, take care of Eden resident's piece of furniture
40Golfer Palmer with RN's orphan on Broadway
41Sampras is holding staff backwards, with special handles? (2 wds)
42Wanders about with alumni right away
Down
1Colleagues of heifer and swine not quiet
2Empty hogwash relating to you and me in a moment of truth (hyph)
3Dresser finally inside, placed one foot back; that'll be all (3 wds)
4Henry's last is average-sounding?
5Delicate condition initially described by song
6Runs are hard to come by
7Recite “Excited by Nathaniel”
8Supporter, first and last, of tough means of enforcement
9Ultimately mislay direction, part of a bread recipe
11One of the Musketeers garbled oaths
16Wildly regale club with gusto
17Noted uncle, clinging to wife, didn't sink?
19Subordinate interrupted by second line to the audience
20Primarily responsible for answer in art publication
22Soldier with energy climbing mountain
24Some theaters use a short broadcast
26Foreign tenor I show the ropes to
28Satisfactory cuts reversing net cost of transportation?
29It might be stuck in a corner of street map, unfortunately?
30Indian royalty jogged with engineer (var)
32Gore seen in half of videos is real
34Language featured in “Anger Management”
35Friend Mary's introduction is a source of dates
36Endless flurry of activity in resorts

Solution